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I’m Ashley. I Was You.

Teen mom. Broke and tired. Fighting for peace and purpose while still handling business. I created Defining My Way™ for moms like me—who are ready to stop surviving and start thriving.

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From Struggle to Strategy: Read the Blog for Busy Moms

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Resources made for the overwhelmed, over-it, goal-getting mom who’s ready to reclaim her time, peace, and pockets.

The All My Roles Collection™ – For the Moms Who Play Every Position

From the sidelines to the band stands, this stylish collection is a salute to the real MVPs — the moms who make game days, band trips, and late-night practices possible.

Because being “Mom” means being the driver, the cheerleader, the coach, the bank, and the biggest fan. Each hoodie, tee, and tote honors the many hats we wear and helps fund youth sports and music dreams.

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Balance Looks Good on You 👑

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